Hello, I’m happy you chose to check out Copper Penny Coaching.
First, I’m sure you are asking what exactly IS Copper Penny Coaching? Copper Penny Coaching provides a proven process that helps married couples develop a deeper understanding and bond with one another that will sustain their relationship beyond the “honeymoon phase”. It helps married couples re-create the loving and respectful marriage they once had. It enhances relationships by developing an overflow of openness, authenticity, security, love and passion. You may be saying, “our relationship is perfect; we don’t need any help.” That’s exactly what my husband and I believed about our own marriage. In hindsight, we wish we’d gone through a program that would have prevented the relationship growing pains we experienced; but we didn’t. As a result, we took the LONG route to get back to marital bliss. We want to save you the trouble and help you cut through the stuff and get straight to bliss.
Are you frustrated with where your spouse and you marriage?
Are you afraid your marriage will end in divorce like your parents?
Are you afraid to talk about your finances and debt with your spouse?
Are you afraid to share your sexual desires with your spouse for fear of judgement and rejection?
Don’t let these things get you down.
Copper Penny Coaching will help you broach all these topics and more to ensure your marriage is built on openness and understanding and not fear and frustration to make it the best you could ever imagine. It will help you define what you want in your relationship, set goals and take actions to move you and your spouse into a healthy, engaging, and loving marriage.
How did I get here?
One day, after being married for years and years, I woke up and realized my marriage was in trouble and was headed for divorce. How it got there? At the moment, I couldn’t figure it out but as you and I know, there were signs and issues along the way that were ignored and discarded as not that serious. I’d spent many years trying to be the “perfect” wife and mother. I was going through the motions mainly driven by my desire to have a stable home for my family and not wanting to disappoint my family and friends. I was trying to be what everyone else wanted for me and wasn’t clear of who I was at my core and what I really wanted in my life. I finally, took a step back to assess my situation and became honest about what I wanted in my marriage and in my life. I learned to be honest with “myself” and became confident that if I was operating from a pure space of authenticity then I really could have the fairytale marriage all girls dream about. I’m happy to say, I have my dream husband and he’s the man I love and married over 24 years ago.
My transformation came as I went through my training as a life coach. My training not only taught me how to be a great coach but I personally went through a year of personal coaching similar to my clients. I was challenged to dig deep into who I was and the life experiences that had shaped my perspective on life. I learned without realizing it, I’d started to “play small” to keep others from feeling bad about themselves. I believed because I’d been told that I dominated situations and that it wasn’t all about me, that if I wanted to maintain my relationships, then I should be someone different so I could be accepted and not shunned by people close to me. These thoughts transcended into other areas of my life, including my relationships and developed into self-doubt and a lack of confidence which migrated into my marriage. Once I became aware of my own thoughts and feelings surrounding these areas, I was able to shift these thoughts and feelings to build the marriage I desired the most. Now, my husband and I coach couples on building a firm foundation from the onset of their marriage throughout the life of the marriage that fosters openness, confidence, honesty, and understanding of each other individually and as a couple.
If you like what you’ve heard so far but aren’t sure if this is for you then it’s time for you take the next step and scheduled a strategy session where you can create a plan for your marriage and your future.
Schedule a STRATEGY session today.